With a predicted annual growth rate of 8.04% each year until 2028* the industry has finally shifted the dial and changed the societal conversation around masturbation, self-pleasure, and reducing the orgasm gap between men and women. Well overdue!
You aren’t alone in making pleasure a priority. In 2020, the global sex toy market was valued at $33.64 billion* (USD). It’s time to have a remove all stigma and enjoy masturbation, sexual wellness, and self-love.
It’s time to bring a toy into play. Explore yourself solo, with a partner, or multiple partners and reach new sexual heights together.
Right, where do I start?
If you’re new to the world of sex toys and haven’t used them before there’s a whole heap of choice out there to allow you to discover some new erogenous zones. If you don’t know where to start, here’s a quick guide to help you choose.
Personally, we’re huge fans of the toy range from SKYN®. All SKYN® intimate toys are expertly designed to provide maximum sensual pleasure. They have options for every body, for solo and partnered play – bullets, clitoris stimulators, male masturbators, and much more – it all depends on what floats your boat. And they’re available right here from us.
Toys love water-based lube
As practice makes pleasure perfect, get to know yourself on a deeper level by adding a water-based lubricant when enjoying your favourite silicone sex toy.
Water-based lubricants are free of any smell, taste or colour and are non-staining (ensuring no marks on your sheets!). LifeStyles® water-based products are easy to use and wash off with no leftover residue. Generally, these lubes are light and smooth on your skin – and to the touch. They are suitable for use with any sex toy and won’t impact the materials.
Silicone on silicone? Big ‘no-no’!
Silicone-based lube is not a good match for silicone sex toys as they can affect their longevity and possibly destroy them in the long run. Nobody wants a deteriorating material near or inside their body!
And don’t forget to spoil yourself in the pleasure journey. Candles, music, and relax in your own space. Nobody knows your body better than you do – so start to get to know things even more.
Just add lube and start exploring here
*Source: https://www.grandviewresearch.com/industry-analysis/sex-toys-market
Natural wetness and lubrication during vaginal foreplay and intercourse may change at different times. There may be health reasons, hormonal changes or stress side effects that can cause a decrease, however, lube isn’t just a great addition for these practical reasons. Even if you feel like you’re fine and have plenty of natural wetness, lube is definitely worth adding to your bedside table.
Breaking away from the stigma of lube can help us learn, experience more, and open up new realms of excitement. An essential for anal sex, lube can give you confidence to try new things, be more creative, and communicate more.
This lube or that lube? What’s the difference? Beyond a basic ‘ingredient name definition’ what are water-based or silicone-based lubes best suited for? Water-based lubricants are free of any smell, taste or colour and are non-staining (ensuring no marks on your sheets!). LifeStyles® water-based products are easy to use and wash off with no leftover residue. Generally, these lubes are light and smooth on your skin – and to the touch. They are suitable for solo use, with a sex toy, and for vaginal penetration.
Silicone-based lubricants are designed and formulated to last longer than water-based lubricant. Perfectly suited for anal play, silicone-based products are much thicker and as they do not easily absorb into your skin – meaning you don’t have to stop to reapply.
But how much should I use? While there’s no ‘right’ amount, it’s best to experiment and find out the ideal amount for you. Perhaps you like more when you’re masturbating? Maybe you just like a little when you’re with a partner? Start off with a small amount and gently apply to the desired area using your fingertips. Remember, you can always apply more!
Which lube is right for me?
LifeStyles® Silky Smooth Personal Lubricant is formulated to increase pleasure and comfort. Smooth, easy to use, easy to wash off, water-based, and non-staining, this is the #1 lubricant in Australia.*
LifeStyles® Luxe Silicone Lubricant is Australia’s most popular and best-selling silicone lube.** Lasting 3x longer^ than water-based lubricant, this special long-lasting formula won’t dry out and provides the ultimate in performance and comfort. A great choice for anal play or longer sessions.
LifeStyles® Ultra Natural Intimate Gel uses our most natural ingredients for a smooth, long-lasting natural feel. Vegan friendly, dermatologically tested, suitable for sensitive skin.
“My partner and I were looking for a new lubricant that used more natural products to help prevent irritation during and after sex. This product is great! It smells good, washes away easily and has a lock so you can store safely without leaking or securely when travelling.” – Ultra Natural Intimate Gel review via Amazon
Just add lube and start exploring here
*Total Lubricant Sales Australia MAT 16.01.22
**Proven by in vitro study 2010
It’s true that sexual pleasure for women has always been a taboo topic; a second thought. Until recently, where the narrative has switched from ‘masturbation is dirty and secluded’ to ‘masturbating is the cool new form of self-care and stress relief’ (which also comes with an array of helpful accessories to assist 😉 ).
Even with this new feminist freedom surrounding masturbation, it is important to remember that it may not be for you. And that is okay! If your sex is safe and consensual, everything else is your choice to enjoy/partake in.
Masturbation, or the lack of it, is your decision to make and stand by. Here are a few reasons to remember that it’s okay if you don’t enjoy touching yourself:
There’s no pleasure in it: The idea that all men and women enjoy masturbating is just another way to stereotype: you’re doomed if you do and you’re doomed if you don’t.
Let’s remove the judgement from these situations. This preference has no impact on how one performs or enjoys themselves in the bedroom. It’s a personal decision and if it sits right with you, that’s all that matters.
You’re bored of it: If you’re having great sex with a partner, why overdo it? Masturbating can feel like a chore and make you feel less of a sexual connection with your partner. If you’d rather save it for when you’re really going to enjoy it, that’s totally fine.
You just prefer sex with someone else: An emotional and passionate connection can be the main reason you enjoy having sex. You see masturbation as time wasted – it’s not going to tick your boxes. That’s fine, too! If you decide you’re feeling explorative, maybe introduce some mutual masturbation with your partner.
Choosing what you want in the bedroom is the epitome of sexual liberation, remember this if you ever feel swayed or judged by your choices from society.
The ability to stream it anytime, anywhere has created confusion between what is real sex and what is porn’s constructed versions of sex – all of which are essentially entertainment. As such, watching porn can set unrealistic expectations for all genders when it comes to how to act in the bedroom.
Unlike real sexual encounters – which can be quiet, clumsy and awkward – porn presents idealistic and fantastical scenarios, problematic consent (or lack thereof) and over-the-top orgasms. It also leaves out a lot of things that are unavoidable during sex like wiping up, communication or not reaching climax.
For full transparency, we’ve listed 20 things you don’t see in mainstream porn – something to remember before comparing your own experiences to those on the small screen.
- Consent. It’s the most important part of any sexual encounter and must always occur before anything else. It’s also sexy – your partner should enthusiastically want to have sex with you, and respect your boundaries in the process. Porn stars should verbally consent on camera for the scene they are shooting, and sign a contract that indicates they consent to being filmed and having their image shared online.
- Real, body-shaking orgasms. Something the porn industry hasn’t nailed yet is a realistic female orgasm. Sadly for women, they are shown in porn to have speedy orgasms from intercourse, without foreplay/oral. For most women, this would be unsatisfying and even painful in real life.
- Lubricant. We don’t see how much lube is used during porn, if at all. The stars are fornicating in front of a camera crew and a director, so lube is essential to keep both parties going to the finish line. Lube should also be a must for anal scenes.
- Anal prepping. In porn, anal sex is framed to look like a walk in the park, with easy entry and enjoyable penetration for both parties. This isn’t reflective of reality. Anal training, generous lubing, wipes, clean-eating and butt plug prep are all requirements for a flawless anal scene. Something to remember when spontaneity strikes!
- Awkwardness. Let’s be real, sex can be awkward! Fumbling with clothing, weird questions, shame and insecurity can all come into play. Porn doesn’t embrace the awkwardness that comes with sex; it airbrushes it out completely.
- Peeing after sex. Unless the scene incorporates peeing as a kink, the act is taboo and rarely shown. In fact, peeing after sex is very necessary for women’s sexual health. It clears any bacteria, preventing UTIs and making both parties feel more comfortable post coital.
- Love. Most porn stars are paired together based on looks or popularity, not by connection or chemistry. It might look idealistic, but it wouldn’t feel half as good as being with someone you know and care about.
- Wipe down. Sex is messy business, even messier in porn! You will never see an after-sex wipe down or clean up on camera.
- Water/pee breaks. Even porn stars must hydrate and go to the bathroom during a sex sesh.
- Shyness. Porn stars are usually professional actors who are very comfortable in front of the camera. They are trained to appear sexually confident and present as secure within themselves. For regular humans, being shy is normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
- Communication. Just like consent, we don’t see a lot of communication during sex on screen. There is rarely a verbal exchange about changing positions, bringing in sex toys or putting on a condom – let alone safe words during BDSM.
- Condoms. A lot of porn doesn’t highlight the use of condoms because it’s not considered ‘sexy’ – but that doesn’t mean that protection isn’t key. STI testing is a requirement of working in the porn industry, and porn stars are required to get tested every 14 days. Female actors can also be on the pill or have an IUD, which isn’t communicated either.
- Pubes. Despite being totally natural, we rarely see pubic hair in mainstream porn.
- Vaginismus. This involuntary female muscle spasm prevents vaginal penetration. It’s perfectly normal if it occurs, but it is never seen on screen.
- Erectile dysfunction. Just like vaginismus, males’ erectile dysfunction is never shown on screen, even though it is a very common occurrence.
- Period sex. Period sex is very taboo in porn, which contributes to the social stigma around this perfectly natural monthly occurrence.
- Arguments. Like the lack of communication, we don’t see open dialogues in which couples disagree or argue about anything.
- Foreplay for her. 20 minutes of oral sex is too long of a time to include in a porn video, but for many, this is how long they’d spend getting their female partner ready for the big deed.
- Real pleasure and arousal. Like foreplay, real arousal and pleasure take time! Much of the pleasure we see in porn is acting.
- Sex toys. Butt plugs, vibrating bullets and anal beads are usually only seen within certain categories. Anything that heightens the partner’s pleasure (for their own sake) isn’t normally shown – it’s all about putting on a show for the viewer.
Porn is not real life and shouldn’t be considered a benchmark for ‘real sex’. Sex is about connection and intimacy – both concepts which are yet to be embraced by the porn industry.
Lubricant is known to enhance our sex lives but, with so many options, how will you know which is the best one for you? From water-based and flavoured lubes to silicone and sperm-friendly options, we’re here to provide all the info you need to decide.
The first question to ask yourself is: what do I want to use lube for?
Are you experimenting with anal sex, looking to fall pregnant or introducing sex toys in the bedroom? All of these questions will affect which type of lube is going to work best for you.
Best lubes for anal sex
When it comes to anal sex, the number one rule to follow is LUBE UP! The more lube, the merrier.
A long lasting, silicone-based lubricant like LifeStyles® Luxe Lube is perfect for anal.
Side note: If you’re using any silicone-based sex toys, it’s best to have some water-based lube on hand, as silicone lubes can hinder the performance of silicone-based sex toys.
Sperm-friendly lubes
According to International Journal of Fertility and Menopausal Studies,* some lubricants can inhibit sperm mobility by between 60 and 100% (after 60 minutes of sexual activity).
If you’re trying to conceive, then it’s important to choose a sperm-friendly lubricant. It can also make the conceiving process a little more comfortable, especially if you’re on a sex schedule!
Lubes for all-night-long sessions
Getting hot and heavy? Silicone-based lubricants are the way to go. They’ll keep everything wetter for longer, which means you won’t have to stop and apply more! Oil-based lubes can also double as a massage oil, which is great for creating intimacy.
One thing to remember: although oil-based lubes will keep you going all night, they can lead to spilt condoms if overused.
Whatever your reason for loving a good lubricant, make be sure to try all the varieties and dosages of lube out there to ensure your sex is the best of the best.
*Source: Kutteh WH, Chao CH, Ritter JO, Byrd W. Vaginal lubricants for the infertile couple: effect on sperm activity. International Journal of Fertility and Menopausal Studies. 1996 Jul-Aug;41(4):400-404.
There’s a lot of pressure around the word virginity. Each generation has a different outlook on the term – for Gen Y and Gen Z, being a ‘virgin’ is still considered a negative label. The pressure to ‘lose your V plates’ is something we care a lot about. Fortunately – after what feels like 100 years of hiding and dreading the title – perceptions around virginity are beginning to change. We are finally able to release the societal burden and accept people’s individual choices.
Today, we are more defined by our own states of mind rather than society’s sexual constructs that often emphasise age, sexuality and gender pressures. It is more about putting personal pleasure at the forefront – not just ticking the deed off the list! What a time to be able to ask for what you want and work towards getting it with someone. Moving forward, this is the energy with which we want to surround ourselves and our sexuality! So on that note, lets debunk some of the biggest first time, cherry poppin’ myths with a quickfire TRUE OR FALSE.
1. An intact hymen makes a person a virgin. False! Firstly—not every female is born with a hymen; this is completely healthy and normal in some women. Tampons and fingers can easily pass through the vagina without disrupting the hymen. The myth around breaking the hymen during penetrative sex is entirely false; the hymen doesn’t ever break. It simply stretches.
2. The term ‘virginity’ is not a medical term. True! You cannot medically test someone to learn if they have lost their virginity. This would be a violation of human rights, according to the World Health Organisation, but it’s unfortunately a practice that still exists in many parts of the world where women and girls are especially oppressed. It’s simply not possible to tell by looking at the vagina whether a person has had sex. Hymens look different on everyone; some are perforated and some can’t be seen to the naked eye. Basically, there isn’t a medical way to action a virginity test. According to the American College of Obstetricians, no such method has ever existed.
3. You lose your virginity when you have penetrative, vaginal sex with a penis. This is false. The word virginity is heteronormative because the only legitimised form of sex in our society is vaginal. Therefore, the concept of virginity delegitimises the LGBTQIA community by failing to acknowledge gay sex. We have come along way when it comes to the perspective of virginity, but it’s clear we still have a way to go when it comes to destigmatising homosexuality.
4. I shouldn’t use sex toys before I have sex? FALSE. As stated earlier, tampons and fingers can easily be used without disrupting the hymen, as can sex toys. Some of the best toys for women are designed for external use (for example, clitoris stimulators) – these are not inserted into the vagina at all. So, do some research, get some lubricant and your new favourite toy, and enjoy exploring yourself! Knowing what you like before involving a partner can make the experience even more pleasurable.
5. The concept of virginity perpetuates a cycle of shame. This is true. To some people, women who keep their virginity are sacred and ‘pure’. The reason women wear white dresses on their wedding day is to indicate they’re ‘innocent’ and ‘pure’ for their husband. In modern times, this isn’t always the case as many women aren’t virgins on their wedding days, or they exercise their free choice in not observing tradition. As for men, the concept of purity does not exist. Historically, men have been (and still are) applauded for getting their pleasure. This is another factor, in a list of endless cultural factors, that perpetuates the orgasm gap and the associated cycle of shame. But it all seems to stem from our cultural denial of female pleasure – something that women are now beginning to take charge of once and for all.
The sooner we acknowledge societal harm caused by the virginity contruct, the sooner we can create a world with sexual equality for everyone. Wouldn’t that be a future worth seeing!
The age-old question, does size matter? We are here to tell you that yes, it does, but only for your condom use 😉 Learning about sex ed is very different to engaging in sex. They provide you with the basics of what a condom is used for, how to put it on, how to dispose of it etc, but there’s never the follow up education of condom fit, sizes and preference.
We are here to bridge that gap for you.
Nobody wants that feeling of your condom being too tight or slipping off! If your condom is too short, the chance of it snapping during sex is very high which makes it completely ineffective when it comes to protecting you from STI’s. If your condom is too long, it is likely to roll down and have excess hanging off the shaft. Both situations aren’t conducive for safe, or pleasurable sex.
Here is our checklist when it comes to the perfect fitting condom:
1. Measure your penis
For an accurate measurement, take a measuring tape to your penis or get someone else to assist you 😉 Either way, make sure to get the width and length of your penis, measuring at the base to the end to ensure you’ve covered it all. Once you have these measurements you can go on our website lifestyle.com.au and find which condoms are made for your size, we have plenty of styles to go around.
2. Leave your ego at the door
Most men have the XXL complex, always thinking they need to be the biggest, but like we said earlier, it isn’t about penis size, it is about condom size and if the dom fits, that’s all that matters.
As recorded by The British Journal of Urology International, an average male penis size is 3.6 inches long (flaccid) and 3.7 inches wide, so we’re all in this together.
3. Buy it and try it
Woo hoo! You now officially know your condom size and have reached the ‘try on’ step of the checklist. A lot of people use the one and done approach; buying one condom style and continue to use that style indefinitely. Not you, you deserve to try them all and find what gives you the most pleasure during sex. Dotted, flavoured, extra lube, closer fit, or glow-in-the-dark – the list is endless so have fun with it!
4. It takes two, baby
Sex is a two-way street, when choosing your preferred condom make sure to include your partner in this decision as well. At the end of the day, you and your partner need to both enjoy the experience and this keeps communication open for you both to have a say.
Our sex life began in 1905, and since then we’ve continued to build on our expertise in sexual wellness, sexual education and our trailblazing attitude towards sexual health product innovation. You could say, being ahead of the curve is our favourite position.
In addition to our work in sexual health products, we’re committed to helping sexually active people make fun choices, smart choices. We believe that a great sex life comes from healthy communication – so let’s do it with meaning.
We are committed to education, by providing thousands of free sex-ed resources to teachers all across Australia.
We are connected to the community, by partnering with Family Planning Alliance of Australia to provide them with hundreds of thousands of free condoms and lubricants each year.
We champion your right to have the confidence you need to explore your own sexuality, on your own terms, and create meaningful human connections.
Human sexuality has become far more prominent in modern culture over the past few decades, and as the subject becomes less taboo, so do many practices associated with it. Sex toys, for example, have been a part of the sexual experience in many cultures as far back as the ancient Roman Empire and beyond. In more recent times, the use of vibrators and other devices was common, but no one really talked about it.
In the 1800s, vibrators were used in a clinical setting to cure hysteria in women. This “disorder” is no longer recognized as an illness, and since then, the vibrator has evolved significantly. They were often marketed as massagers and everything about them was kept very hush-hush.
These days, however, there are many different options available that range from high-end devices available exclusively at adult shops to the inexpensive vibrating ring and personal pleasure massagers that can be found at drug stores and supermarkets, such as SKYN® VIBES PERSONAL PLEASURE VIBRATING MASSAGER. The stigma of using vibrating devices for pleasure is quickly vanishing and being replaced with commercials that discreetly advertise toys designed for intimate fun.
“For both women and men, vibrator use is linked with more positive sexual function, such as greater desire, arousal and easier orgasms,” says Dr. Debby Herbenick, the author of “Sex Made Easy” to CNN online. “It’s also something that most women and men feel positively about – there really isn’t the same stigma that, decades ago, people may have associated with sex toy use.”
Herbenick explains that nearly half of men and most women in the U.S & Australia have used a vibrator at least once. The internet may have something to do with the increase in sex toy use. Many are shy or embarrassed about purchasing intimate items from their local pharmacy. Now, people are able to order everything from pleasure condoms to vibrators and other items designed for getting down and dirty from the privacy of their own homes.
If you have never experimented with vibrating toys, you may want to start small, and the SKYN®THRILLS Vibrating Bullet could be a good place to start. This small massager has three different settings, is water-resistant and reusable. Vibrating rings are ideal for both partners’ pleasure, which makes it an ideal choice for men who may be hesitant to try the devices.
“Fortunately, most men are not intimidated by vibrators,” Herbenick explained to the news source. “Some men worry that their partner will prefer a vibrator over them, but most men don’t feel this way.”
If you do decide to try vibrators in the bedroom, be sure to take care of them. Wash and dry them after each use before putting them away so they are ready to go next time you and your lover are in the mood.
Losing your virginity can be a nerve-wracking experience. Until you’ve actually had a sexual experience, the world of sex can seem both alluring and intimidating. If you’re getting ready for your first time, here are a few things you should know before you take the plunge.
1. Relax about your body
This may be one of the first times that you show your naked body to a member of the opposite sex, but you shouldn’t let this thought cause you to panic. Because you’re both going into this experience willingly, then odds are the other person is pretty eager to see how you look without any clothes on. It’s natural for anyone of any age to have insecurities about their appearance, but sex is a time when you can lose yourself in the pleasure of another person’s body, and forget about the parts of yourself you’d like to change.
2. It may not go as planned
You’ve probably spent quite a bit of time imagining how your first time will go down, but it’s important not to think too carefully about what you expect. Sex should be a spontaneous event, and during a romantic encounter you’ll likely find out that your partner has different ideas about how things should proceed. This isn’t a bad thing – one of the beautiful parts of sex is that both parties get to voice their needs and wants, and revel in the pleasure of attending to their partners’ desires.
3. You can take it slow
Just because it’s your first time doesn’t mean you have to do every single act on your sexual checklist. In fact, it may be wise to take things slowly. Start out with some fun oral play, or invest in a vibrating device, like the SKYN® THRILLS vibrating bullet for some mutual masturbation fun. If you want to stick to oral sex your first time, then pick up a few flavored condoms to bring the experience to a new level.
4. Practice makes perfect
Don’t worry if things get a bit awkward during your first experience, especially if your partner is also losing his or her virginity. In the movies, sex may look completely effortless, but in reality it doesn’t always go so smoothly. Fortunately, the more time you spend with your partner, the better sex will become. You’ll soon learn what he or she likes and dislikes, and each session will get steamier as a result.
5. Safety first for your first time
Don’t listen to people who say you can’t get an STI your first time – it’s a myth. Similarly, women are able to get pregnant even during their first experience. For these reasons, it’s essential that you wear protection each and every time you have sex – even if you’ve never done it before. Wearing condoms will keep both you and your partner safe.
By now, you’ve probably run into a few people who seem to always get the guy or girl they want by the end of the night. They manage to walk into a crowded bar and almost effortlessly seal the hookup or date they desire. Often, these bold individuals aren’t the most physically attractive people at the bar, but something about them gets everyone they meet worked up. If you long to have the sexual expertise these people carry, then you may want to keep these tips in mind.
1. Be confident
Remember the last time you went out to the bars with your friends, and there was that quiet person sitting on a barstool by themselves the whole night? No, of course you don’t. Keeping to yourself is the number one way to be overlooked when seeking a fun date. Being outgoing may be difficult for the shy, but if you want people to pay attention to you, then you have to approach them with confidence. This doesn’t mean talking about yourself constantly or being a loudmouth just to get attention. Instead…
2. Be friendly
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and the difference often lies within your attitude. Players may sometimes get the girl, but if you want to be the kind of person who everyone wants, then a smile and a compliment are key. Just be sure that your friendliness doesn’t come off as overeager anxiety, instead try to…
3. Be relaxed
It can be easy to get worked up in a social environment, but not many people get turned on by someone who is high-strung. This quality ties back in to the issue of confidence. If you want to truly present yourself as confident, then you need to show everyone that you can be relaxed, yet engaging when interacting with new lovers (and friends). Just make sure you are truly relaxed and not putting up a front, because it’s essential to…
4. Be honest
It may be tempting to make up wild stories in order to impress everyone, but if you really want to nab a new partner, you’ll need to be honest about yourself. Allowing people to get intimate with you on a personal level, even before you turn down the lights and unwrap your pleasure condoms, will help them realize you are the real deal. Just don’t open up too much to all those strangers, because you have to…
5. Be smart
We’re not just talking about having some intelligent talking points up your sleeve, though that is also useful. Truly sexy people know the best kind of sex is safe sex. And if you really want to be one of those folks who gets down and dirty on the regular, then you can’t let sexually transmitted infections get in the way of your game. Play it safe and smart – use protection every time you have sex.
More and more couples are choosing to use vibrating devices are part of their sexual activity. If you’re considering purchasing a sex toy for yourself or your partner, you may want to keep some useful tips in mind, according to POPSUGAR.
First-time toy shoppers may be wondering what the difference is between vibrators and dildos. While both are used in the bedrooms, dildos are used for penetration purposes, while vibrating toys, such as the SKYN® THRILLS vibrating bullet, are used to stimulate certain areas, like the clitoris. Because most females reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation, it may be best to purchase a vibrating device, rather than a dildo.
While vibrating toys have become less taboo in recent years, some people may still be hesitant to visit a sex shop or other retailer that offers adult toys. For this reason, it may be wise to shop around on the web and buy a sex toy online to avoid any awkward interactions at a check-out.
Shopping with a friend or lover can also make things easier. If you plan on using the toy with your partner, then you’ll definitely want to include them in the shopping process. Being open with your partner and talking about sex can make your sex life much more enjoyable.
The website reminds shoppers to check a store’s return policy in case the item does not work or is unsatisfactory. Additionally, when picking out a toy, investigate the material out of which the product is made to avoid any allergic reactions.
While people may still be hesitant to talk about their usage of vibrating devices, recent surveys from Indiana University published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine indicate that just under half of all men and more than half of women have used a vibrator at some point in their life, according to The New York Times.